Project Vitality - Relationships
With the endless options of dating available why are so many people so unfulfilled and unhappy in both short and long term relationships?
We live in a day and age if you wanted to get laid you could literally spend a couple of hours on a dating app or head to a club and it's pretty easy.
I cant even imagine the amount of genital rubbing that's going on every single day but I could imagine its astronomical and it's mainly with people who know barely anything about each other.
Whatever happened to standards?
I have a theory, people are so disconnected from who they are, their core values that they don't actually value themselves and their company so they go fir a quick fix, a Netflix and chill which gives both parties a quick dopamine hit but when that fades the dread of hating yourself and the unhappiness deep in the soul creeps back in, then its rinse and repeat.
Here's a few tips for those struggling to find the one.
First unfortunately you have to become the one, you have to fall so deeply in love with yourself that you will never just settle.
When on dating apps look at their eyes, their smile, read their bio and ask yourself could I marry this person if the answer is not yes, don't connect, stop wasting each others time and hurting each other, now of course you might meet and not hit it off but at least your meeting people with same values, dreams and desires for life.
Plus maybe instead of clubbing do the activities you love for me its surfing and honestly its babe city out there 😆, no sparks flying for me yet but some descent solid ladies and some epic lads that I've made friends with as well.
When you start hanging out with like minded people where there is true mutual respect the universe will bring your one and it will be when you're least expecting as your high on life without them 🤙