Was I really Living The F*cking Dream?
Here are some photo's when I was in Vietnam day drinking and literally drifting through life.
The problem was I didn't have a clear vision of where I wanted to be in life, I didn't know I had a problem and I didn't know what it was costing me.
I was making great money, I had lots of freedom and I was having fun.
However at the same time I was destroying my body, I didn't have any meaning and not all areas of my life were thriving.
And unfortunately I didn't find out until it was too late and I got so sick that it took me over 10 years to recover meanwhile losing everything I had created on the way.
Whilst I am glad I had that experience as I have a clear way to teach people how now to do it.
Well they can go down that path if they really choose but it was the darkest of dark and I honestly wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
You see as far as I can remember I have actually always wanted a family and through having a family reaching my greatest level of freedom and fulfilment
But as we all do we have experiences that rock us to our core For me it was some break ups when I was younger, which led me to close my heart and created the story that I couldn't trust anyone and I wasn't actually worth what I truly desired, that I could only have freedom if I was on my own.
Ever since then my heart has always known there is more however the story was so strong that I would never have anyone that wanted to co create with me so I became the lone wolf.
I actually see the lone wolf so prevalent in the professional and entrepreneurial world, and even those that do have families as well as the career success its falling apart in front of their very eyes at a rapid rate and most are just pretending its not happening.
The reason being most never pause to sit to create an aligned life and business vision, to sit with their emotions of what it is truly costing them, they just keep going instead.
For me personally because on the outside I looked successful travelling the world, going on all sorts of adventures, people thought I was living the dream but I was actually using it to run from what I truly wanted until it turned into my nightmare.
Each day I look around and can see how close people are to their world completely turning to shit, its easy for me to spot as I went through it, but like I was people aren't aware they have a problem as they are suppressing everything.
Fast forward to now, I'm so fucking clear, I have total Clarity, Confidence & Certainty and it ignites me at the deepest of my core to help others rapidly shift.
I created the Lighthouse method which is a culmination of everything I have learnt over the last 15 years and I use it to illuminate my clients paths so they can unleash their souls authentic self expression.
My 12 month group mentorship program isn't for everyone though its actually only for that small handful of people who are like FUCK IT,
I'm willing to finally acknowledge that I don't have everything I desire in my life and its making me sick and miserable.
Those that are ready for 12 months of radical responsibility and accountability and no more bloody excuses.
So if every day you wake up your soul is screaming reach out and let's get this show on the road, there will never be a perfect time, so there's no time like the present.
You know you are meant to making a bigger impact.
You know you deserve more time, money freedom and epic humans in your life.
The question is are you going to go out after it?
Or you still want to play the victim? How's that working out for you?
You know where to find me.
Radical Responsibility with your health is the gateway to Freedom
Nicholas Fairbairn AKA That Health Dude
CHEK Practitioner - Rehab Specialist