I love Avatar apart from the part where they make out that humans are all bad and destructive.
Yeah I agree there is a large proportion of people who are unconscious to their behaviors, well we all are to some extent but this is shifting rapidly, like real fast.
Humanity is waking up from the amnesia, that it was purposely put in to dull it's spirit.
Anyways back to Avatar I have two favorite quotes from it. One I'll share in another post.
But in this one I want to talk about the quote "I see you"
Deep down I believe that's what we all desire but for me personally 2022 felt like the complete opposite where everyone was just taking the piss.
Patterning that I thought I had done the work on all seem to resurface in 2022 like a chronic shit storm.
I personally thought for me 2022 was going to be epic as I'm a 33/6 numerology so I was like yeah this is my year.
But I allowed people to walk over me, treat me with disrespect, dishonor, use me and to be honest just talk to me like I was worth nothing.
And it was a lot of people, I mean a lot, many that I thought I had tight friendships with to.
So I really had to sit with How do I see myself? How is my relationship with my inner child.
I realized there was still some father wounds there particularly around abandonment and that he chose his other family over me and mum and pretty much cast us to the side, like his wife and kids don't even know I exist and he kept that charade up until I was in my early high school years.
Last night in my sleep I could feel the rage in me like an inferno that was literally burning everything away inside me that no longer serves me. That rage I didn't even know existed I had told myself I had come to peace with it and yeah adult me has but inner child me was like fuck this shit let's burn everything to the ground.
This morning I made 2023 the year were I take no shit, no one is being put on a pedestal or defending them as they are just going through shit , whilst they may be they can do it the fuck away from me.
I'm looking at actions not words, I'm also going to create my wise council around me, I do have this anyway but normally I get guidance from them after I've been spat at the other end, no more of thus nonsense, the nice guy is dead.
Well my heart will always be my superpower and that will keep expanding but the guy that can get walked over is gone now.
I'm learning non violent communication so If I want to express how I'm feeling I'm not projecting and understanding that yeah sometimes people will trigger me and that's no reason to cancel them, but if people aren't respecting me or treating me like the way I am to them then bye Felicia.
I only want to surround myself with people that love, cherish and adore my presence and I'm going to give the same respect for others if I don't genuinely feel those emotions around them I'll cut the friendships, business and any potential love interests so all parties can find people that genuinely see them, which is what we all deserve.
Find those people that no matter what stage of your life you are at they want to grow and evolve with you.
These are your people, and this is the only standard I accept moving forward, I invite you to do the same.
If relationships have always been a major hurdle in your life my mentorship program will be perfect for you.
Whenever I am stepping into teacher and mentor role every single aspect of something I think I'm an expert in gets shaken up, so I can uplevel, gain new skills and insight.
So this year I've had enough relationship issues to go for a lifetime haha.
I've cleared most of it now and have 5 days to complete the cycle for the year so bring it haha.
Radical Responsibility for your health is the gateway to freedom
Nicholas Fairbairn AKA That Health Dude
CHEK Practitioner - Integrative Health Coach