Something I wrote 4 years ago still stands true to this day.
I've figured out my why!!!!
Why I came to the planet. You see I have found this extremely difficult not because their is a lack of things that have meaning to me but because I'm passionate about so many.
I just couldn't seem to hone it down to one vision but here it is
"A world where women and children do not fear men"
I thought about putting the positive on it eg "A world where women and children could see how heart centred men are"
However it doesn't have the same ring to it and it bypassing the important point.
Men need to understand that women and children are afraid of us!!
I'm not saying all of us but as a collective we have created a persona that has something's we need to change now.
Now here's where I may differ from others the traits that women and children are afraid of do not need to be removed, controlled or regulated we as men need to learn repurpose those energies and go deep into the emotions of why they are there.
Here are the main 3 I see
Sexual Predator
Abusive and Angry
Emotionally disconnected
Let's start with sexual predator. Men we are the biggest pedophiles on the planet. Their is a multibillion dollar industry because as men we pay to have sex with children. This is all kind of levels sick, we rape women everyday, we spike women's drinks to do this, we hunt women and lie to them to have sex, we are obsessed by it.
But I do not believe we need to stop being sexual as we are by birth sexual beings we just need to redirect our sexual energy and have a reset of it. Sexual energy when used wisely is the most creative substance on the planet so men when we learn to harness this energy in co creation with powerful consentual women, when we harness this into creating change in the world and when we learn to sit in the discomfort of keeping that energy inside our body rather than needing to release it that's when the magic begins.
Anger and Abuse
A woman and child dies everyday because a man couldn't process his anger, everyday women and children hide on fear because of our anger, domestic violence is growing daily and as men we have really done fuck all to stop our fellow brothers and hold them accountable.
But again to me anger is not the bad guy. We as a society have tried to suppress this. Anger is a healthy emotion we just need to learn ways to express this that does not involve anyone else.
Now let's get to emotional disconnection.
Men have checked out I hear over and over again that women want emotionally open men.
First this is where I challenge women.
Have you really created the space for the men and boys you love to be vulnerable?
Where do I believe this was lost?
Two places. The first is as a society we taught men emotions where wrong and bad ever since childhood and second as boys grew into men they joined the workforce to make money and provide for the ones they love so vulnerability wasn't an option.
Through the automation of industry and rise of the female entrepreneurs the role of provider is shifting so many men are in a unique place where they have never been before
Space to be vulnerable and the option of following their heart so they can live in passion and purpose.
How can I help this dark place men have got into.
My secret weapon is essential oils!!
I have found these to be the most powerful tools to access our potential and to clear any emotional darkness, wounding and layers that we are consciously or unconsciously holding on to.
The type of people I'm ready to work with are
Men who are willing and ready to face their demons and want a strong support network of brothers
Women who are willing and ready to release their hurt and anguish towards men and would love a strong support network of men and women
Men and women who are willing and ready to stand beside me in creating a world where the stories of men are rewritten. That the men of Earth are the most heart centred courageous and humble beings in the universe.
Pm me if your ready. It's go time 🙂