I wrote this a few years ago but probably stands even truer today.
I am proud to be a man. Today is International Men's Day.
On a day like today can we all recognize the amazing men we have in our lives. Whether they be partners, brothers, sons, dads, grandpa or friends.
You see us men have been getting a bit of a bad wrap lately.
With the rise of the feminine which is beautiful to witness there is starting to be some casualties and men are at the front line.
GOOD MEN, TEENAGERS AND EVEN YOUNG BOYS.
What I am seeing is the anger of the feminine from the suppression of the masculine being taken out on all the masculine today and the challenge I see is that many of these Men, Teenagers and Boys were always for and still are fighting for the rise of the feminine.
I am starting to see the masculine close down as he is tired of fighting he does not want to fight the feminine he wants to rise with her, however the rise is starting to get nasty and men are withdrawing.
More and more we are feeling the guilt that runs through our veins we are aware of what has been done to the feminine because we feel it everyday. We see all injustices on women and children as our fault.
And we are doing the work we are doing centuries worth of clearing, we are reaching into parts of our DNA that have been numbed when are ancestors lost their ways and we are pushing ourselves to our limits to try to do what we know is right.
But we are getting tired. Tired of being told that everything that is wrong in the world is because of men, that we are not important anymore and that although many men have destroyed their bodys and souls to provide and protect for those they cared about that its not important anymore.
We will not fight as that is not who we are anymore. We have evolved past the games of control and manipulation and we will hold space for you till the anger passes and we honor you for being angry as you have the right to be for what has happened to you but we also see clearly that anger is not the answer.
Love is
Kindness is
So today even if just for a moment if you could move past the anger that has arisen because of how you were treated and suppressed and just reach out to a man you love and tell them how important they are to you.
Actually tell them with words and hug them deeply because i can guarantee you they are hurting more than you can ever imagine and they are sorry for everything that any man has ever done to you even if it was them.
The time for Unity is now.
We love you
Regards Nicholas on the behalf of all Men.
PS this includes all unconscious men as they are still going through the process and feeling it they are just using different coping mechanisms as they are terrified that once they do open up they will be condemned and judged so I ask that you especially send love to these men to show them that Love does not judge and love is there and love will wait for them until they are ready for it.
Creating Radically Fulfilled Humans
Nicholas Fairbairn
CHEK Practitioner
Integrative Health Coach