Dr Happiness - Men's Mental & Emotional Wellness
A post I wrote a couple of years ago and even more important today as there is a huge attack on men, I am going to put out a not so popular opinion in the feminist movement. I believe Men have massive hearts are deep emotional and sensitive beings who care for humanity on a profound level.
Here's a post for all the men out there. Whilst I am fully behind the rise of the Goddess movement there is quite a dark side to it as well.
The reality is there are millions of men across the globe who self sacrifice for the greater good of the women and children they loved.
They have for generations worked themselves to the ground to provide and protect women and children. They without thought just did what needed to be done in the situation they were put in.
This system was not created by them, they may not like it but they saw no other option as they loved their women and children so deeply.
With the rise of the goddess movement this seems to have been forgotten. As women all over the globe are freeing themselves from the patriotically society, remember that men are also slaves to this society.
Yes i understand that some men have used and abused this power and for some reason many women still look up to these disgusting human beings, however 99% of men are bloody good blokes.
Yes they may not be as in touch with their emotions and your needs but the reality is they have never been given the opportunity in time or space to do this.
They actually have no idea how to surrender and let their guard down and it terrifies them for a few reasons
They care so deeply about the ones they love that if they surrender and let years of emotions surface they know they may not be able to provide and protect the ones they love and they are not willing to risk that.
They know they will be judged.
Now this may seem silly but to be honest you would think this judgement would come from men but what they are most afraid of is the judgement from women.
You hear that women want a man who is more in touch with their emotions however are you willing to stand by the men in your life when they are down on their knees with no hope in sight as the darkness is rising to the surface, are you willing to hold them as they go back to their inner child, that little boy that was told to man up, harden up, suck it up or be a man.
You see most men have never had the chance to cry they have bottled up all hurt and sadness most men hold this emotion along their spine and its debilitating them to the point that they cannot go on.
So women support the masculine to rise into our God Self's so we can stand beside you we will not let you down but please stop punishing us and hating us for what has also been done to us.
Now that you are free help free us. We need you, we crave your nurturing and when we get up off of our knees after our moment of surrender you will not see a fiercer warrior on this planet who will have your back no matter what.
Lets do this lets rise together for the first time in human history.
I'll add a few words.
This is exactly why I created the Loving The F*cking Dream Blueprint, I to like most men crave the nurturing touch from the feminine but I do notice I put my walls up as my past experiences have been every time I let my walls down I get hurt.
I'm practicing daily to keep them down even if I feel hurt, disappointed, attacked and undervalued. This is a process I will be guiding all those who join my 12 month mentorship program.
Men and women it's time to feel the feels, all the ones you pretend you have worked through. The only way out is through.
If you feel I'm the mentor to guide and support you to anchor in your dream life dm me a couple of founding positions are still available.
You know the life you deserve it's time to create it
Creating Radically Fulfilled Humans
Nicholas Fairbairn
CHEK Practitioner - Integrative Health Coach